The Psychiatrist as Clinical Computerologist in the Treatment of Adolescents: Old Barks in New Bytes
Case 1: Computer-Facilitated Enhancement of Social Life for a Patient With Social Phobia
Abe (not his real name) was 15 years old when his parents referred him to a child psychiatrist. Abe and his parents had become increasingly disaffected over his lack of friends. His parents were exasperated because “He doesn’t even try to make friends.” Their efforts to help by offering suggestions or making arrangements for activities with his peers were met with rejection or disinterest. For his part, Abe felt that his parents were intrusive and pushy and did not believe him when he said he would “work it out” himself.During the initial assessment, Abe’s parents also brought up, as a minor concern, the amount of time Abe was spending “in his room on the computer.” Abe’s father was employed in a computer-related firm and made extensive use of computers both professionally and personally. The parents had purchased a computer for Abe because they believed that computer literacy was important. They had, however, become concerned that Abe was substituting time logged into chat rooms for time spent socializing with friends “in the real world.” Abe confirmed that he spent many hours weekly in chat rooms, on occasion spending the majority of a weekend day online, but he saw nothing wrong with these activities.Although Abe initially stated that he was willing to participate in therapy simply to get his parents “off of [his] back,” he gradually allowed himself to participate as a patient. After a few sessions, Abe confessed that he himself sometimes worried that he might never have friends. In particular, he found it difficult to be in groups where his peers talked about dating or mixed-gender activities when he had never come close to going on a date.Abe spent much of the initial therapy sessions discussing computers. His use of computers could in part be conceived of as defensive, in that he clearly appreciated the control and the relative anonymity offered by the chat rooms in contrast to face-to-face social interactions. In addition, however, he clearly enjoyed (and needed) the feelings of mastery and competence afforded by his expertise with computers. Because of the importance of computers for Abe, and because of the relative strength he displayed and felt in this area, his therapist elected to reveal some of his own knowledge of computers. These self-revelations led to fruitful discussions of what it would be like to meet the therapist in a chat room or whether Abe had perhaps already done so. This talk led to further conversations about social relatedness (or social anonymity) and the differences between computer relations and face-to-face relations. For example, Abe initially stated that meeting in a chat room would be more intimate for him than live therapy since he was much more open—more himself—in chat rooms. From there the therapy moved to discussions of trust, self-image, and self-esteem.At one point the therapist asked which chat rooms Abe frequented. Abe was initially hesitant to reveal this information, recognized his hesitancy, and became curious about it. With clear trepidation, Abe began to think more about and discuss just who the therapist was to him, why he cared what the therapist thought of him, what the therapist might do with this personal information about him, and what it would be like to have a relationship with the therapist online as well as face-to-face. Parenthetically, the therapist had never participated in any of Abe’s chat rooms but chose not to reveal this to Abe despite his occasional questioning. By this point in the therapy Abe could both appreciate the use of such neutrality and enjoy the therapeutic challenge it presented to him.Coincidentally, at about this time Abe was both dismayed and intrigued to discover that his best chat room companion was a girl. He had simply assumed that “she” was a “he” (12). Furthermore, he learned that she also lived in the same area and that they shared interests in areas other than computers. Abe’s discussions of computers in therapy were soon crowded out by discussions of this girl. What would it be like to meet her? What did she look like? What would she think of him? He spun out several fantasies about a meeting, some primarily rescue fantasies, others focusing on themes of disappointment or rejection. All the while the online relationship continued. At the girl’s instigation, they agreed to meet for coffee. Abe came into the session after the meeting expressing disappointment. The girl was not beautiful, not the fantasy princess he had been longing for. He went on to describe a classic adolescent first meeting—silliness, awkwardness, earnest discussions—all quite typical for such meetings but all new to him. He was, of course, anxious about their next meeting in the chat room, but it went “OK.” After a series of subsequent online and face-to-face meetings, they tacitly agreed to become friends rather than boyfriend-girlfriend. She introduced him to some of her friends in another area of interest, and his social life (outside of his computer) began.
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Case 2: E-Mail as an Adjunctive Treatment Tool in the Outpatient Management of an Adolescent With Anorexia Nervosa
Bonnie (not her real name), a 17-year-old high school senior, had suffered from anorexia nervosa for several years. At age 16, this 5′4′′ girl’s weight had fallen from 115 to 88 lb. After several months of treatment with a psychologist and taking paroxetine, 40 mg/day, prescribed by her family physician, Bonnie’s weight gradually increased to 100 lb, at which point she was first seen by a psychiatrist. She described herself as “stuck.” She had not menstruated since age 12, her food choices were markedly restricted, she ate no real meals, and she was exercising about 1–2 hours per day. She estimated her caloric intake to hover between 700 and 1200 kcal/day and rarely to reach 1700 kcal/day. She had no binge eating, purging, or substance use. She still felt that her thighs were too big, and she complained of ongoing symptoms of depression and anxiety, feeling “empty” and indecisive, and being irritable with her family regarding food issues.When first seen in consultation, neither Bonnie nor her parents would even consider having her enter a hospital program. A treatment program was devised to include elimination of active exercise, a 2000–2500-calorie diet with ongoing consultations with her registered dietitian, dual energy X-ray absorptiometry to assess bone mineral density, continuing medication therapy, outpatient therapy on a weekly to every other week basis, regularly scheduled office visits for Bonnie and her mother, a bibliotherapy program regarding eating disorders for Bonnie and her family, and a steady stream of e-mail messages to the psychiatrist between sessions, in which she was to focus on the amount and variety of her meals and other issues pertinent to cognitive, behavioral, and emotional aspects of therapy. Looming behind this plan was the threat of hospitalization in an eating disorders unit, supported by her parents, if she did not make adequate progress within 2 months.At the start of the program, Bonnie was informed that e-mail was not necessarily an entirely secure or confidential way to communicate, that she should be careful about what she wrote, and that the e-mails would become part of her permanent medical record. She agreed to use e-mailing as described. She planned to use her private e-mail account from school. Bonnie made very good progress in treatment. Before departing for college in a distant state 7 months after her initial consultation, she e-mailed her psychiatrist several times each week. Reprinted with her permission is a small sample of illustrative exchanges:
Week 1: Hi Dr. Yager-meister! How are you today? I’m doing ok. I’m feeling confident that I can do this. Today I have had no diet soda yet and don’t plan on drinking any. I am going to eat a p-nut butter and pita sandwich instead of a light bread sandwich. I’m going to buy myself a regular yogurt and eat a total of 1900 cal total. I’m a little nervous but also positive that I can do this. BWeek 2: Hey Dr. Y! Happy Thanksgiving—too bad the vacation’s over. I had a bad Thanksgiving day…I got very uncomfortable and anxious at the place we went and I ended up going home. I felt horrible but got over it. I’ll tell you about it on Thursday.…Thanks for typing back.…Oh yea, I had a package of p-nut [candy] on Saturday. WAHOO! Later!—B.Week 6: Hi there. Sir. How are you today? I’m ok. Not great. Yesterday in gym I was wearing an outfit that I haven’t worn in a while…it’s always been smaller than my others, but it felt different. I started thinking about and noticing my body more. It sucked. I can tell my butt is bigger, and I feel like my thighs are humongous. They look gross to me when I look down at them. My stomach and waist feel different too. I feel gross I mean when I pay attention to my actual body. Physically I feel good—energetically and all. I’m a little sick with a cold, but other than that I’m ok. I feel awkward and a little sad about stuff, mostly my body and boys.… I just feel kinda blahh last night and a little today too. Maybe it’s PMS…a freaky thing for me to think about! Maybe I just need to get back into the swing of things…I don’t know. Thanx for reading (listening sorta). I’ll talk to you more on Thursday. Bye-bye.—B*Psychiatrist’s response: Hi B—I’m glad to be able to comfort you. You’re really on the right track, and “slumps happen.” See you tomorrow.Week 8: [Bonnie’s weight was now about 108 lb.] Hey, Dr. Dude —…My hormones must be kicking in hard core because I’ve got zits all over my forehead! I don’t really have much to tell you. Oh well.…Talk to ya later.—B+Psychiatrist’s response: Hey! Congratulations on the zits—that’s a great sign, having to do with return of hormones and health. They’ll clear up OK. I’m sending you lots of good encouragement.…Take care—keep up the good work. See you next week.Week 12:.…I had a very nice day. I ate a piece of pizza with my mom, but was reallllly big so I cut some of it off. I estimated about 400 calories for it. It was good but I felt incredibly full after eating it. I’m still alive though.…BWeek 18: [Her weight was now about 115 lb.] YUCK!!!!!!! I HAD A PERIOD!!!!! I CAN’T BELIEVE I?M WRITING THIS TO YOU IN AN E-MAIL. IT’S DISGUSTING!!!!! Talk with ya later, dude! B
After graduation and losing her personal e-mail account at high school, Bonnie started to use her father’s e-mail account from home, and her messages trailed off appropriately. She still struggled with increasing her food choices but continued to make progress and maintain her improvement. Her care was transferred to a therapist near her college, and she has continued to do well, continuing to e-mail both her current therapist and, occasionally, her psychiatrist.
Summary and Evaluation
Pros: It’s great for keeping me in check with things… you know, incentive to do well! It’s nice to hear back from you…it makes me feel like I’m more than just a once a week patient. Reading responses is encouraging. It’s a good way to release what’s on my mind at the moment that I might otherwise forget to mention in a session. Good way to stop what I’m doing and take a minute to reflect on how well I’m taking care of myself. Of all the things I HAVE to do in the day, it’s the (or one of the) best things to HAVE to do.Cons: It’s one more thing to have to do! Reporting bad news because of my own doing! Forgetting to check-in regularly makes me feel bad :(
It’s a pain to log on to my dad’s e-mail. I don’t have my own private account at home…others can (“but don’t”) read my mail. Re: the privacy thing, my dad has access to these messages, but he says he doesn’t ever read them. I believe him, but would rather keep things vague as you did in your previous message. By the way, thank you for your abstractness…for that one message, my dad opened it and sat here while I read it. “But he usually doesn’t read them.” I’m sure he was just being courteous and opening it for me cuz I was right here, but you never know…I was actually a bit scared that he would read a response that wasn’t “abstract.” Thank you again!
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