The “Erotic Transference”: Some Technical and Countertransferential Difficulties

This paper highlights dynamics that may interfere with the therapist’s identifying and addressing the erotic transference: (1) deficient training; (2) theoretical orientations that devalue the transference while espousing a “real” relationship including self-disclosure; (3) countertransference responses to the erotic transference; and (4) clinical errors of focusing on the manifest erotic transference while overlooking significant but latent pre-oedipal, oedipal, aggressive, or selfobject issues. Inattention to these dynamics may render the therapist vulnerable to sexual acting out with his patient.