Emotional reactivity and instability are considered to be core BPD features (
American Psychiatric Association, 2013). Emotions easily overwhelm patients with BPD and can disrupt their psychological equilibrium. They have difficulty identifying and differentiating feelings, and they have little capacity for experiencing gradations of feeling (
Levine, Marziali, & Hood, 1997). BPD patients often report having intense feelings that fluctuate rapidly and multiple emotions simultaneously (
Ebner-Priemer, et al., 2007). Anger typically is the “umbrella” emotion, covering frustration, disappointment, and sorrow, and it is often expressed in raw ways (e.g., screaming, using expletives, hitting) rarely congruent with societal norms (
Gardner, Leibenluft, O’Leary, & Cowdry, 1991;
Zanarini, Frankenburg, Hennen, Reich, & Silk, 2005).
According to
Reinecke & Ehrenreich (2005), the ability to regulate affect is rooted in an “integrated set of component skills that allow an individual to maintain a level of affective arousal that is appropriate for effective coping with stressful situations” (p. 170). These skills include affect labeling, mood monitoring, cue identification, and recognition of escalation points. Affect labeling involves the therapist identifying and labeling feelings to help the patient tolerate all feelings, even unpleasant ones, and experience gradations of affect. Since anger acts as the umbrella emotion, the therapist infers un-verbalized feelings and articulates the patient’s emotional state (
Bateman & Fonagy, 2006;
Koerner, 2012). For example, “I know you’re angry that Joe’s traveling for work next month; I imagine you may also feel sad that he’s going away from you.” Also, gradations of a feeling are labeled: “I wonder if ‘annoyance’ might be a good word to describe what you were feeling toward the woman on the bus who was talking loudly on her phone?” When emotions are not labeled accurately, they do not appear to attain semantic representation and likely remain undifferentiated and difficult to regulate. Accurately identifying and labeling an emotion can have a regulating influence by dampening arousal (
Kircanski, Lieberman, & Craske, 2012).
Patients with BPD can also learn to monitor their own moods and identify internal cues that signal changes. For mood monitoring, the goal is to help patients pay more attention to their feelings throughout the day and identify patterns associated with changes in mood. Patients can learn to ask themselves certain questions: “How did I feel today? Was I feeling high or low? What was I feeling? When did my mood change?” This leads naturally into cue identification, a skill that helps the BPD patient “identify internal cues that she is about to lose control rather than external triggers or precipitating events” (
Reinecke & Ehrenreich, 2005, p. 171). The patient is asked to notice any somatic, affective, cognitive, or behavioral signals that something is happening. Cue identification can help the patient use the signal to choose a different response, rather than reacting spontaneously. Initially, this often means walking away from a situation. As cue identification improves, BPD patients may develop the ability to stay in the moment.
Finally, the patient is asked to identify an escalation point, which is the precise moment when a feeling intensifies beyond the ability to control it. When a patient describes these situations, there is invariably a moment when he or she says “and then I lost it.” This is identified as an escalation point. At the very least, it offers an opportunity to prepare for such a situation in the future. In the short term, this may mean avoiding the stimulus; in the long term, developing a modulated response. Identifying escalation points also plays an important role in attaining insight into the patient’s underlying dynamics.
Building affect regulation skills likely help BPD patients develop a language for their emotions. Once feelings are symbolized semantically, words may help a patient monitor his or her moods, perceive internal cues, and identify escalation points. This can create emotional distance from the present moment, and may make enacting feelings behaviorally less necessary. Research indicates labelling affects provides greater prefrontal control over amygdala hyperactivity (
Hariri, Bookheimer, & Mazziotta, 2000;
Lieberman et al., 2007). Increasing emotional competence may promote physical and psychological well-being, and improve adaptive functioning (
DeStano, Gross, & Kubzansky, 2013;
Nelis et al., 2011).
Goldman & Gregory (2010) found that a BPD patient’s ability to identify, label, and connect emotional experiences was significantly related to symptom reduction and moderately related to greater social support and less alcohol use.
Behavioral Impulse Control
Patients with BPD have a limited ability to modulate, delay, or control impulses without direct behavioral discharge. While dysregulated affect does influence impulse control, factor analysis indicates that behavioral impulsivity is a core BPD feature (
Sanislow, Grillo, & McGlashan, 2000).
Paris (2008) argued that it should be treated on a parallel track to affect regulation. Furthermore, poor impulse control may include self-harming actions (e.g., bulimia, cutting, reckless driving, substance use) that require direct intervention (
Arntz & van Genderen, 2009;
Koerner, 2012).
The therapist provides behavioral self-soothing techniques (e.g., breathing and relaxation exercises) and suggests alternate ways to cope with impulses toward action. Socially appropriate activities such as exercising, listening to music, and creating artwork can act as pressure valves to discharge impulses. Therapists may need to be directive and set limits if a behavior presents an elevated risk for danger to the patient or others. If the patient does not take reasonable steps to limit self-harming or dangerous behaviors, then the therapist evaluates whether the therapy can continue (
Yeomans et al., 2002).
Those with BPD often struggle to act reasonably and responsibly. Certain situations are too evocative and they engage in behaviors against their best interests. Helping the patient identify potential dangers and possible courses of action, as well as anticipate potential consequences, is believed to develop more adaptive responses (
Arntz & van Genderen, 2009;
Koerner, 2012;
Yeomans et al., 2002). This may require delicacy by clinician because it is easy to judge the patient’s behaviors and, in turn, for the patient to feel judged. Still, the therapist tactfully and repeatedly points out that behavior has consequences. The approach emphasizes teaching patients how to slow down and assess situations before acting. If the patient has already acted impulsively, discussing alternative responses may help the patient use a different option in the future. For example, a patient reports not receiving a promotion at work, and then calling in sick for several consecutive days. The therapist identifies, labels, and validates her disappointment and addresses the behavior’s potential results by saying “you could get fired, and that would put you in a really bad spot.” The therapist then helps the patient find other ways to cope with disappointment rather than continue calling in sick.
Suicidality, self-harming behaviors, and/or threats to harm others invariably complicate most BPD cases. According to
Gunderson (2008), suicidality and self-harming behaviors are “so prototypical of persons with BPD that the diagnosis rightly comes to mind whenever recurrent self-destructive behaviors are encountered” (pp. 14-15). Indeed, such behaviors are a clinically significant component of a BPD differential diagnosis since among DSM-V personality disorders, only antisocial personality disorder also has a criterion for danger to self or others.
The risk of suicide is real.
Persson, Runeson, & Wasserman (1999) found that among patients 15 years or older presenting to a hospital with suicide attempts, 41% were diagnosed with BPD. According to
Bongar, Peterson, Golann, & Hardiman (1990), at least 50% of chronically suicidal patients with four or more emergency room visits in a year have BPD. The prevalence of completed suicide among patients who have BPD is between 3% and 10% (
Paris & Zweig-Frank, 2001;
Stone, Stone, & Hurt, 1987).
Complications arise in the areas amid threat, attempt, and completion. Clinicians have long recognized that a patient’s threats and behaviors often relieve painful feelings or elicit caretaking. While frequent threats and attempts may indicate the person does not actually intend to harm self or others, it is not a reliable indicator. A history of such behavior, regardless of the intent, increases the likelihood of a patient with BPD completing a suicide attempt (
Soloff, Lis, Kelly, Cornelius, & Ulrich, 1994). Those who have BPD can experience cognitive distortions, misperceive a situation’s dangerousness, and underestimate an act’s lethality.
Distinguishing among a cry for help, manipulation, or any other motivation is not easy.
Gunderson (2008) argued that clinicians can become overly cautious or habituated to the threat. If overly cautious, a clinician may iatrogenically create the very situation he or she is working to avoid. Treatment in which the clinician overreacts and constantly “rescues” the patient with BPD likely increases the frequency of acting out behaviors through operant conditioning. If the clinician underestimates the threat, however, he or she may not properly assess risk. What begins as a reactive gesture by the patient can quickly spiral out of control due to the patient’s misperceptions and miscalculations.
Good clinical practice focuses on informed consent, assessment, consultation, documentation, and addresses a threat’s underlying motivations. A patient can make verbal threats without instigating immediate hospitalization or a duty-to-warn situation. In fact, clinicians want a patient to verbalize such thoughts and feelings in therapy rather than act them out, as verbalization provides a way to discharge the feeling or impulse. However, the clinician must understand the threat’s context, as well as the intent, and availability of means.
Gunderson (2008) recommended using an “acute-on-chronic” model when evaluating risk. The therapist neither ignores chronic danger, nor looks for it. An excessive focus on prevention can derail the treatment. The clinician is alert to short-term warning signs such as changes in mood, increased stress, life events involving separation or loss, changes in substance use, or changes in daily activities. Evidence of an exacerbated or more acute situation suggests increased risk, which requires appropriate assessment, consultation, management, and documentation (
Fowler, 2012).
Cognitive Clarification
The cognitive processes of a patient with BPD are generally intact. This often allows the patient to function on a day-to-day basis. However, reality testing, memory, attention, concentration, logic, and conceptual ability are easily compromised due to emotional dysregulation, which can result in perceptual distortions, paranoid delusions, and disordered thinking (
Gergely, 2003;
Judd, 2012;
Seres, Unoka, Bódi, Áspán, Kéri, 2009). The patient may misperceive certain features of the environment and misattribute motives. Patients may become distracted, focus narrowly and rigidly on irrelevant details, and display paranoid ideation, ideas of reference, and delusions. Thoughts can become exceedingly concrete (e.g., a closed door means rejection), disconnected, prone to overgeneralization, emotional reasoning, personalization, and black and white thinking. Patients with BPD often expect others to know what they are thinking and feeling and to see situations in the same way they do.
A BPD patient’s cognitive abilities can become compromised quickly. A variety of cognitive interventions can address this, such as: advantages and disadvantages; evidential analysis; generation of alternative explanations; and normalization (
Arntz & van Genderen, 2009). Interventions typically cluster around assessing evidence related to conclusions, expanding a perspective, or challenging automatic thoughts. No matter how tactful, patients may experience a therapist’s clarification of a cognitive distortion as being told that their thinking is dysfunctional. Thus, when addressing a distortion, the therapist’s motivation may be misconstrued which could provoke a rupture. Still, the therapist sensitively addresses the distortion.
For example, a patient reports that her work phone is bugged and her boss is trying to fire her. The therapist seeks evidence by asking what leads her to believe the phone is bugged. The patient replies angrily, “Oh, that’s great, you think it’s all in my head!” The therapist says, “I don’t know enough about what you’re telling me to agree with you or not. If you tell me more, I may understand better.” The patient calms down and describes hearing a clicking noise on her phone, meaning her boss is probably listening in to find out if she is making personal calls. The therapist simultaneously validates the experience and seeks a more nuanced perspective by generating alternative explanations: “I know you’ve been struggling at work lately; it makes sense you’re afraid of getting fired and one way your boss could do that would be to bug your phone. Given that this is illegal and could get your boss in a lot of trouble, I wonder if you and I can explain the clicking noise a different way?” The patient agrees but struggles, so the therapist suggests some plausible alternatives.
Dynamic Understanding
Implicit mental functioning, or underlying dynamics, influences our subjective experiences. An underlying dynamic may be conceptualized as a schema, object relation, archetype, or internal working model. This paper uses the term “schema” since it is a generic, well-known term incorporating the essential features of the other concepts. Schemas are cognitive-affective templates of self, others, events, and relationships and can be healthy or pathological (
James, Southam, & Blackburn, 2004). They originate in childhood as an individual mentally represents important and consistent sensations, perceptions, behaviors, and emotions experienced in temporal contiguity. Typically encoded in procedural memory, schemas allow people to process information quickly, to organize it, and to interpret it to deal with routine and novel situations. Schemas are implicit and operate outside our awareness. They are also always active, automatically filter internal and external stimuli, and assume prominence or fade into the background based on exigent circumstances.
A pathological schema contains painful and overwhelming impressions and feelings derived from childhood experiences that continue to exist, unmodified and without semantic representation, into adolescence and adulthood (
Arntz & van Genderen, 2009;
Yeomans et al., 2002). When pathological schemas predominate, as they do in personality disorders, all experience is filtered through these rigid, anachronistic lenses. This contributes to the emotional instability, behavioral impulsivity and cognitive distortions of a patient with BPD, and it interferes with their ability to adapt successfully to life.
A variety of schemas associated with BPD cluster around certain themes: abandonment/abuse; anger/impulsivity; victim/victimizer; detached protection; and punishment (
Arntz & van Genderen, 2009;
Bateman & Fonagy, 2006;
Yeomans et al., 2002). These describe different ways the patient organized experiences and adapted to his or her childhood environment. For example, a BPD patient might have learned in childhood that the world was dangerous; people who should have had his or her best interests in mind did not (parental neglect and abuse) and abandonment was inevitable. When in abandonment/abuse mode, the patient feels alone, vulnerable, mistrustful, and helpless.
Certain situations activate these schemas and can easily disrupt thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. Since schemas work outside our awareness, the therapist helps the patient notice their activation and effect.
Paris (2008) argued that “self-observation is a skill that therapists need to teach all patients with BPD” (p. 148). Initially, they have a limited ability to reflect upon their own, or others’, thoughts and behaviors and believe things happen either randomly or because other people are malevolent. They lack insight into how they might contribute to their symptoms and dysfunctional patterns, or how others may have differing preferences and beliefs. Also, they often project their own unacknowledged traits and fears onto other people, thus misattributing others’ motives.
By noticing how the patient’s mind works, the therapist may develop the patient’s capacity for “mentalization” (
Bateman & Fonagy, 2006). The task is to broaden and deepen the patient’s awareness of an experience, focusing on the mental states of self and other (
Bateman & Fonagy, 2006). Noticing when patients say something vague, confusing, problematic, or contradictory may gradually help them describe what is occurring in their mind and/or that of another person. Interventions that promote mentalization appear to improve the BPD patient’s social support, reduce the need for institutional care, and decrease parasuicidal behaviors (
Bateman & Fonagy, 2009;
Goldman & Gregory, 2010).
This process leads naturally into a “chain analysis” (
Koerner, 2012). Specific events—particularly when the patient was emotionally dysregulated, behaviorally impulsive, or experienced distorted cognitions—are reviewed thoroughly. The therapist helps the patient think about how the situation emerged and played out moment by moment. “There should be no fast forward but rather frame-by-frame progression, pausing frequently to rewind and explore” (
Bateman & Fonagy, 2006, p. 36). What happened? Who was involved? What led to the patient’s particular affective or behavioral reaction? What made the patient so angry in the moment? The therapist repeatedly explores mental states, how the patient relates to people, and copes with problems. Through this process, patients with BPD may gradually begin to notice precipitating events, controlling variables, escalation points, and to assess how their feelings intensified or were converted into maladaptive solutions.
Ultimately, the goal is to help patients recognize patterns and to understand how underlying schemas contribute to their emotional dysregulation, behavioral impulsivity, and distorted cognitions. The therapist does this through an interpretation, which connects the precipitating events, the resultant maladaptive solutions, and the schemas that appear to influence the experience. Interpretations are tactful, tentative statements that present an alternative viewpoint or possible explanation. The therapist pauses after making an interpretation, giving the patient a chance to respond. If the patient disagrees, the therapist suggests that there may be other explanations. Interpretations are believed to be an important change mechanism in a BPD treatment by promoting semantic representation of underlying schemas and integrating split-off representations of self and other (
Yeomans et al., 2002).
In the following example, a patient reported drinking alcohol to the point of blacking out after her previous session and claimed not to know why she drank so much. The therapist conducts a thorough chain analysis to understand the patient’s experience during the session and what followed. After gathering sufficient information, the therapist offers a possible explanation for the behavior:
Therapist: What did we talk about last session that may have stirred things up?
Patient: You leaving, being on vacation, don’t know when though.
Therapist: We’ve talked about the dates before so it wouldn’t be a surprise for you. Perhaps the idea of my being on vacation, “my leaving,” frightens and angers you?
Patient: And at the end of last week’s session I also said I felt better and like I could trust you more.
Therapist: So feeling that I’m helping you and that you’re more trustful may have provoked thoughts and feelings that I might abandon you. The last time you drank until you blacked out was last year, when you also worried about my going away.
Patient: It’s like some fight or flee response, I guess. If I drink that much, I don’t have to think about you not being here; I can mentally check out and run away.
In this example, the therapist connects his impending vacation (precipitating event) to the patient’s feelings (fear, anger, increased trust) and binge drinking (maladaptive solution); in particular, the therapist describes how the latent abandonment fear drove a repetitive, dysfunctional behavioral pattern (underlying schema). Indeed, abandonment is a core BPD schema (
Arntz & van Genderen, 2009).
During the treatment, the therapist repeatedly focuses on the patient’s mental states and connects events in the patient’s present life to underlying schemas. This process may promote lasting personality change as habitual maladaptive responses are encountered and identified through repeated experiences with the therapist. Archaic, maladaptive procedurally encoded knowledge and memories, which had operated automatically, are identified and modified into more contemporary, semantically encoded information that allows for more conscious, adaptive responses rather than unconscious, maladaptive reactions (
Viviani, Kächele, & Buchheim, 2011). Such work is believed to develop a “healthy adult” schema (
Arntz & van Genderen, 2009) that gradually modifies pathological schemas (
Yeomans et al., 2002).